AshV

That shows maturity in the situation. We usually teach kids to take correction ,to not be envious of another and it's sad how most of us do not outgrow certain childish behaviours. We tend to hold on to grudges and childish competitiveness that cause hurt to someone else who is NOT in a competition with us at ALL. Rather some of them are trying to be a friend. Being self centered is not the same as having self love. Self love is the conscious effort to appreciate how far you've come and celebrate you but you still can be selfless in the process whereas self centeredness involves a completely selfish approach to alot of situations. When we always expect others to do everything according to what WE want and you never give them an option. When they don't choose what we want, we tend to react in a hostile manner.

When you have Self love you encourage others to love themselves as well in a way that is positive and NOT selfish at all. So be careful with yourself and around others. May no one ever feel hurt around you but loved and comforted. Choose to outgrow childish habits and revaluate oneself at all times. How to speak to, care for and understand another. We are all still learning everyday, but the goal is to mature.